We Are Not a Fetish!
It’s summertime, and everyone is back out and about. It’s the best time for people to explore and try new things; must be the summer heat. One of the things that individuals like to experience is being with someone plus sized. You’re probably asking yourself…” What is she talking about?” Well, let me break it down for ya.
The curiosity surrounding us is funny and sad at the same time. The only difference is that we are pounds heavier. We work, play, laugh, have sex, etc. just like anyone who is a size 0, or 8…any size for that matter. Since I brought up sex… let me talk about that some more as this is the area in which I see a lot of people’s interest pique.
This article is not for those genuinely attracted to larger people; we all have preferences. It’s for those not really attracted to us but are DYING to know what it’s like to be with one sexually. I’m sure we all know at least one person, who will dog us in public, but inbox us in private.
What is the curiosity about? How do we feel? How do we taste? Are we flexible? The questions go on and on. We are not aliens! Some of us are flexible, but you know there are smaller people that struggle to bend down and touch their toes, right? If you are really trying to get to know us and we happen to be plus, that’s fine, but do not use us to fulfill your fetish fantasy, then be out in public holding hands with your size 5 girlfriend at the beach. Someone’s son or father will be frolicking with me (wearing a two-piece) in the water in front of everyone and like it.
I know there are memes that say “fat is where is at” and “once you go fat you never go back”. I get that it’s fun and games, but when the games end, the problems begin. For those who want to be inquisitive, just do yourself a favor and leave us alone. Now if folks continue to proceed and fall in love, be sure to tell your friends and family; let the world know how you’ve been changed…LOL! Also, let me know by sending an email to info@janellesimmons.com. I might feature you in a future article.
Much Love!
