RHONDA MCTYRE'S TRIUMPH OVER SKEPTICISM AND SETBACKS
UNVEILING GRACE
From a young woman raised in a modest small town to navigating the bustling expanse of a metropolitan city, Rhonda McTyre's journey has been one of profound transformation. Growing up under the guidance of a single mother, who raised a household of eight children, Rhonda faced the odds as a girl with preconceived notions about age, weight, and height, defying expectations to pursue her dreams.
In the face of skepticism and discouragement, fueled by remarks from her mother about perceived limitations based on a standardized test in high school and a distant father disinterested in her life, Rhonda chose to forge her own path. Opting not to seek validation from her biological father, she instead cultivated a relationship with her spiritual father, recognizing that sometimes, blood ties are not as influential as the bonds we create.
While dreams of success always fueled her ambitions, they were not confined to the glitz of runways or fashion shows. Despite criticism from those who deemed her aspirations frivolous, Rhonda stood firm in her belief that her story, dreams, attitude, and worship aligned with her spiritual journey and heavenly father. Acknowledging that her salvation journey had its share of tumultuous moments, particularly in her younger years, a pivotal moment in her late twenties marked a turning point. A desperate plea for help during a dark period led to a transformative experience, prompting her to reevaluate her life and embark on a journey of self-improvement.
Acknowledging the time-consuming nature of personal growth, Rhonda learned to trust the process, understanding that following the path of Christ often involves stripping away the good, the bad, the ugly, and the sweet aspects of one's life. The process may be challenging, but it ultimately works on multiple levels, shaping character and fortifying resilience.
As Rhonda approached the age of 30, a new chapter unfolded with aspirations of pursuing modeling and acting. Despite societal norms regarding age, she embraced her seasoned perspective, recognizing that entering the world of modeling and acting required significant investment. Financial challenges ensued, with unpaid bills and impending evictions, but a transformative photoshoot became a catalyst for discovering her purpose and setting her on a new life trajectory.
The subsequent journey through the realms of modeling and acting brought both lows and highs, with the unwavering strength provided by her faith helping her navigate the inevitable setbacks. To those hesitant to embark on their own journeys, Rhonda offers the advice that age and background should not be deterrents. Embrace what is meant for you and persevere, even in the face of ridicule, bullying, and attempts to shame. Let criticism build you stronger, not break you, and remember that it is never too late to start anew. Just do it.
Who is Rhonda McTyre
QSM: Can you elaborate on the turning point in your life when you cried out to God for help in that dark room? And let me just say this, I FELTH THAT! Also, how did that experience shape your journey towards getting your life together?
Rhonda: That turning point in my life was like a whole surrender and weight lifted. I was battling with the World and Word at the same time. I knew if I followed the world nothing would go right but if I followed the word everything will start to flow right.
QSM: Your decision to build a relationship with your spiritual father rather than your natural father is a powerful choice. How has this spiritual connection influenced your perspective on life, dreams, and your overall attitude?
Rhonda: I knew my natural father wasn’t able to give me the love I need and want as a daughter because in the back of his mind I’m not his. But having that spiritual father in my corner knowing If I give him the keys to my heart, the desires of my heart, intimacy I want with a Father will help mold me to follow my dreams because of the faith and love he truly shows and gives to me. He comforts me when I’m going through it. And the fact that he is always at our bed sides or on the phone line is a huge part I love.
QSM: Transitioning from a small town to a big city is a significant change; one that I know nothing about, because I have lived in NY all my life. But how did your background and upbringing, being raised by a single mother of 8, impact your decision to pursue a career in modeling and acting?
Rhonda: I always felt like an outcast in my family, oh my mom has 2 dark babies and 7 light skin children. I always felt like the black sheep. I want to be the change or the one who breaks the generational standard. I remember driving by Terrel, Tx one day and seeing this big picture of Jamie Foxx entering in his hometown and I told myself one day that will be me.
QSM: You mentioned facing financial struggles and numerous challenges when starting your modeling and acting career. Can you share a specific moment or experience that tested your determination and how you overcame it?
Rhonda: WOW.. I usually don’t like to share my financial struggles because I sometimes look at them as an embarrassment. Nobody knows about this, but I will share it on here. In the year of 2021, I got behind on my car note and my car ended up being repossessed. And that year I made a decision to invest more in traveling to casting calls, make up done etc. It put me far behind, but I made that decision. Someone asked me after the show and castings etc. What did you gain from it except a repossessed car? I had told them one step closer to my dream.
QSM: I know that’s right! You emphasized the importance of not letting one’s age or background fool you when pursuing your dreams. What advice do you have for individuals who may feel discouraged or limited by their circumstances in pursuing their passions later in life?
Rhonda: Never let age define your purpose. If you want to act or model at the age of 58! Go for it. Many people put themselves in this age category of having to be married at 35 and having a baby by 40. Boy bye! Girl Bye. Throw the age thing right out the door.
QSM: Big facts! Because what I am seeing these days as I am getting older, you REALLY begin to LIVE at the age of 40. Facing ridicule, bullying, and shaming can be incredibly tough. How do you manage to stay resilient and use negativity as a source of strength rather than letting it break you down? Because honey, that is a super-power in itself!
Rhonda: I’m a joker and sarcastic woman like Monique. My first time meeting her was back in 2014 or 2015 and the way she carried herself on the parkers and in person showed overcomer. I might be big but baby I’m powerful, I’m strong, I know who my Father is. Bullying someone shows you want what they have. I’m just saying... Cause sis now look real good LOL
QSM: LOL! Your story highlights the importance of trusting the process and enduring the stripping that comes with following Christ. How has this journey of faith impacted your personal and professional life, especially in the competitive fields of modeling and acting?
Rhonda: Ooooooooooooooo that one hits below the belt. It’s been some very very very very tough moments in my life where that job season will hit you unexpectedly. You have 2 choices sit there and cry or stand up and grow through it. You decide what fits you.
QSM: I love your energy and your strength. Please let people know where they can follow your journey.
Rhonda: Awwwww thank you love and yes please follow me on TikTok, Instagram, @curvetocurve. Stay tuned for so much more to come.
Photo credits:
Model: Rhonda McTyre
Photographer: @lionelwhytephotography
Pose Coach: @blu3modelcoachingllc
